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Nostalgia Is Not What It Used to Be

They say, nostalgia is not what it used to be.

It is a funny line, but maybe it is also true. We often look back and wonder about the way things used to be. With all the ways we are connected today, are we more productive or less? Are we more present or more distracted? Are we building more, or simply moving faster? I am not sure.

This Shabbos, we mark the chassidic holiday of Yud Beis Tammuz, the day of liberation of the Frierdiker Rebbe from Soviet prison.

One thing is clear. The Frierdiker Rebbe did not allow the pain of the past to define the present or limit the future. This Shabbos, on Yud Beis Tammuz, we celebrate his redemption, which allowed him to continue his sacred work and eventually reestablish Lubavitch on American shores, helping spark a renaissance of Jewish life around the world in the difficult years after the war.

The Frierdiker Rebbe himself wrote that his liberation was not a personal event alone, but a celebration for every Jew. “It was not me alone whom Hashem redeemed on Yud Beis Tammuz, but also all who cherish our holy Torah, who observe mitzvos, and even one who is merely called by the name Israel.”

In this week’s parsha, Chukas, the Torah tells us of the passing of Miriam and Aharon. Their passing was not only a personal loss. Chazal teach in Taanis 9a that the Jewish people received three great gifts in the desert through their three great leaders, the well in the merit of Miriam, the clouds of glory in the merit of Aharon, and the manna in the merit of Moshe.

When Miriam passed away, the well ceased. When Aharon passed away, the clouds of glory departed. The manna, of course, continued, because Moshe was still alive. Yet the well and the clouds did not remain only memories of a better yesterday. Chazal tell us that they returned in the merit of Moshe.

Moshe did not allow the Jewish people to become a nation defined by what they had lost. He led them forward. The blessings of the past became strength for the future, and the Jewish people continued their journey with faith, courage, and joy.

As America prepares to celebrate 250 years, we can and should look back with gratitude at what this free country has given us. Here, we have been able to live openly and proudly as Jews, to build shuls, schools, mikvaos, camps, kosher institutions, and vibrant Jewish communities.

Fighting antisemitism is important. We must stand up against hate and protect our people. But a Judaism defined only by our enemies is a Judaism of yesterday. The Jewish people of today need living Judaism, proud Judaism, Jewish Judaism, Torah and mitzvos, Jewish homes, Jewish joy, and the confidence to make a difference in the world.

The past can inspire us, but it cannot replace our mission today.

Good Shabbos,

Rabbi Chaim & Chanie


THE COHEN CORNER
Peace is not the absence of differences, but the ability to live together with them.

This week's Parshah contains one of the Torah's most famous prophecies about Moshiach. Bilaam foretells that a future king will arise who will "crush" and "uproot" the nations of the world. At first glance, it sounds as though Redemption will come through conquest. Yet the prophets describe a very different future, one in which all humanity serves Hashem together. The Rebbe explains that what Moshiach will uproot is not people, but selfishness. He will not erase our differences or force everyone to become the same. Rather, the ego that drives hatred, jealousy, and division will give way to a world where every individual and every nation contributes its unique strengths toward a common purpose.

In many ways, we have already seen a glimpse of this possibility. Modern society has shown that people of different cultures, religions, and backgrounds can work together, build communities, and pursue shared goals while remaining distinct. The challenge is that we often become consumed by what separates us instead of what unites us. The Torah's vision of Moshiach teaches us to stop defining people by their differences and start building around our shared values and common purpose. We do not have to agree on everything to move in the same direction. Every time we choose common ground over conflict, and shared purpose over personal pride, we bring the world one step closer to the Redemption for which we are waiting.

Have a marvelous Shabbos!
Rabbi Yosef, Chanale, Mushka & Mendel Cohen


UPCOMING EVENTS & CLASSES:

  • Shabbos, June 27, 9:00 am - Likkutei Torah - Kabbala of the Parsha - Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi's Masterworks on the weekly Parsha.
  • Sunday, June 28, 4:30 pm - Siyum Sefer Torah in Bat Ayin, Israel - Torah Scroll Dedication in memory of R. Avraham and Shoshana Feldman a’h, the parents of Dorit Kamman. The celebration will begin at Beit Shlomo Hall in Bat Ayin, Israel, and the completed Torah will later be brought to Houston to be housed at Chabad of Uptown. If you are in Israel, join us!
  • Monday, June 29, 8 pm - Hebrew Language: The Tanya with Rabbi Menny Raichik
  • Wednesday, July 1, 8:00 pm - YJP Dinner, Class & Social
  • Thursday, July 2, 8:00 pm - Evening Chassidus
  • Friday, July 3, 7:30 pm - All-America 250 BBQ Shabbat First Fridays for young Jewish professionals, with services at 7:30 pm, candle lighting at 8:08 pm, and BBQ themed dinner at 8:45 pm. $20 with promo code advance until Thursday, $36 after. RSVP at www.yjphouston.org/250shabbat
  • Sunday, July 26, 5:00 pm - YJP White Party at the Lanes: White Out or Strike Out at Lucky Strike Houston, 925 Bunker Hill Rd. Bowling, drinks, eats and vibes! www.yjphouston.org/whiteout
  • Shabbos Weekend, August 21-23 - Men’s Shabbos at the Ohel - Whether it’s your first visit or a return trip, this Shabbos is a chance to recharge, reflect, and connect with the Rebbe’s timeless vision during an inspiring weekend of Jewish growth and brotherhood.

SHABBOS PARSHAS CHUKAS-BALAK

FRIDAY, JUNE 26, TAMMUZ 11
7:30 pm Mincha & Shabbat Services
8:08 pm Shabbos Candle Lighting
RSVP for Shabbat Dinner www.chabaduptown.org/shabbatdinner

SHABBOS, JUNE 27, CHAG HAGEULAH YUD-BEIS TAMMUZ
9:00 am Chassidus
10:00 am Services
Shabbos Lunch Kiddush & Yud-Beis Tammuz Farbrengen
8:05 pm Mincha
Ethics of our Fathers, Chapter 5
9:07 pm Maariv, Havdalla and Shabbos ends
Living Torah

SUNDAY, JUNE 28, CHAG HAGEULAH YUD-GIMMEL TAMMUZ
8:00 am Shacharis
4:30 pm Siyum Sefer Torah Bat Ayin, Israel 
in memory of R. Avraham and Shoshana Feldman a’h, the parents of Dorit Kamman

MONDAY, JUNE 29, TAMMUZ 14
6:45 am Shacharis

THURSDAY, JULY 2, FAST OF 17 TAMMUZ
4:56 am Fast Begins
6:45 am Shacharis w/ Fast of 17 Tammuz Selichos & Torah Reading
7:45 pm Mincha w/ Torah Reading
8:54 pm Maariv & Fast Ends


Come and Take It! - PHOTO

There is a famous slogan every proud Texan knows, “Come and take it.”

It began as the proud Texas cry of courage and determination, a refusal to surrender something precious. This week’s Torah portion gives us a deeper and more eternal version of that message.

Korach challenged Moshe and Aharon, arguing that since the entire nation is holy, no one should hold a unique position of leadership or priesthood. But Korach’s mistake was that he tried to take a crown that was not his to take.

Our sages teach that there are three crowns, the crown of priesthood, the crown of kingship, and the crown of Torah. The crown of priesthood was given to Aharon and his descendants. The crown of kingship was given to David and his descendants. But the crown of Torah remains open and available to every single Jew, כל מי שירצה יבוא ויטול, whoever wants may come and take it.

That is the powerful lesson of Parshas Korach. Not every role belongs to every person, but Torah belongs to every Jew. It is not locked away for rabbis, scholars, or people who grew up with more background. It is our inheritance. The only question is whether we are ready to claim it.

We saw a beautiful expression of this this past week at Shabbos in an Hour with Chanie and Chanale, which has been getting rave reviews all week. The excitement was not only about the delicious food or helpful tips. It was about Jewish women taking hold of Shabbos, bringing its warmth, peace, and joy into their homes, and discovering that holiness is not out of reach. It is practical. It is personal. It is ours.

That is the message of Torah, come and take it. Take a mitzvah. Take a moment of learning. Take a Shabbos candle, a Shabbos table, a word of prayer, a step closer. The crown of Torah is waiting, and every one of us has the power to wear it.

Good Shabbos!

Rabbi Chaim and Chanie Lazaroff


THE COHEN CORNER
Admiration is easy; participation is what makes the difference

This week’s Parshah, Korach, tells the story of a man with great ambition. Korach desperately wanted to become the Kohen Gadol, the High Priest, a position that carried not only honor but also tremendous responsibility and sacrifice. While Korach’s rebellion was misguided, there is one quality we can learn from: his desire for spiritual greatness. Korach did not want to admire holiness from afar; he wanted to attain it himself. If only we all shared that same yearning to grow closer to Hashem and live lives of greater holiness.

Too often, however, we are content to let others do the sacred work while we watch from the sidelines. We support shuls, teachers, and community leaders, but sometimes forget that Judaism is meant to be lived personally, not merely appreciated. It is a little like being an enthusiastic sports fan who never steps onto the field. There is certainly value in supporting those who lead and inspire, but each of us has our own role to play. Let us not be content to remain spectators while others do it for us. Let each of us participate in the Jewish mission, and let us do it personally.

Have an outstanding Shabbos!
Rabbi Yosef, Chanale, Mushka & Mendel


UPCOMING EVENTS & CLASSES:

  • Shabbos, June 13, 9:30 am - Likkutei Torah - Kabbala of the Parsha - Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi's Masterworks on the weekly Parsha.
  • Monday, June 15, 8 pm - Hebrew Language: The Tanya with Rabbi Menny Raichik
  • Wednesday, June 17, 8:00 pm: YJP Dinner, Class & Social
  • Friday, July 3, 7:30 pm - All-America 250 BBQ Shabbat First Fridays for young Jewish professionals, with services at 7:30 pm, candle lighting at 8:08 pm, and BBQ themed dinner at 8:45 pm. $20 with promo code advance until Thursday, $36 after. RSVP at www.yjphouston.org/250shabbat
  • Sunday, July 26, 5:00 pm - YJP White Party at the Lanes: White Out or Strike Out at Lucky Strike Houston, 925 Bunker Hill Rd. Bowling, drinks, eats and vibes!
  • Shabbos Weekend, August 21-23 - Men’s Shabbos at the Ohel - Whether it’s your first visit or a return trip, this Shabbos is a chance to recharge, reflect, and connect with the Rebbe’s timeless vision during an inspiring weekend of Jewish growth and brotherhood.

SHABBOS PARSHAS KORACH

FRIDAY, JUNE 19, TAMMUZ 4
7:30 pm Mincha & Shabbat Services
8:07 pm Shabbos Candle Lighting
RSVP for Shabbat Dinner www.chabaduptown.org/shabbatdinner

SHABBOS, JUNE 20, TAMMUZ 5
9:00 am Chassidus
10:00 am Services
Shabbos Lunch Kiddush & Farbrengen
8:00 pm Mincha
Ethics of our Fathers, Chapter 4
9:06 pm Maariv, Havdalla and Shabbos ends
Living Torah

SUNDAY, JUNE 21, TAMMUZ 6
8:00 am Shacharis

MON. & THURS., JUNE 22 & 25, TAMMUZ 7 & 10
6:45 am Shacharis


BBQ had no reason. That was the point. - PHOTOS

 

This week’s Torah portion tells the story of the spies sent by Moshe to scout the Land of Israel. Their mission was clear: to gather information that would help the Jewish people prepare to enter the land. Yet while most of the spies lost confidence, Caleb and Joshua remained strong. They knew that when Hashem gives us a mission, He also gives us the strength to carry it out.

This past week, the guys got together for a BBQ Bash. Some asked: What was the occasion? The answer was simple: stam. No reason. Just because Jews should get together, enjoy each other’s company, and celebrate the joy of being Jewish.

That, too, is part of the Rebbe’s message. Judaism is not only for major milestones or moments of crisis. Every gathering, every mitzvah, every moment of Jewish connection adds light to the world.

This week, as we mark the Rebbe’s yahrtzeit on Thursday, Gimmel Tammuz, we are reminded of the Rebbe’s unwavering confidence in every Jew and in the mission entrusted to each of us. The Rebbe taught us to reach out to every Jew with love, to add in goodness and kindness, and to prepare the world for the coming of Moshiach, one mitzvah at a time.

In the coming days, I will be traveling to New York to visit the Rebbe’s resting place, known as the Ohel. It would be my honor to bring your name and prayer requests with me. Please send me your Hebrew name and your mother’s Hebrew name, along with any requests for blessing. You may also send your own letter directly at: www.chabaduptown.org/ohel

It is customary when asking for a blessing to take on an additional mitzvah, adding more light and merit into the world.

Good Shabbos!

Rabbi Chaim and Chanie Lazaroff


THE COHEN CORNER
The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.

The spies returned from the Land describing its powerful inhabitants and fortified cities. The people panicked. Despite everything they had witnessed and everything G-d had promised, they became convinced that the mission was doomed. Moshe's response was not a carefully reasoned argument. He sharply rebuked them, refusing to validate the narrative that had taken hold. And remarkably, it worked. The very next morning, the same people who had spent the night weeping in despair were ready to enter the Land. The obstacles had not changed, but the grip of fear had loosened.

We often experience something similar. A challenge appears, and before long we are no longer dealing with the challenge itself but with the story we have built around it. We begin to see failure before we have even begun, weakness where there is strength, and impossibility where there is opportunity. Sometimes the first step forward is not solving the problem but refusing to let fear define it. When we regain that clarity, we often discover that we are capable of far more than we imagined.

Have a phenomenal Shabbos!

Rabbi Yosef, Chanale, Mushka & Mendel Cohen


UPCOMING EVENTS & CLASSES:


SHABBOS MEVARCHIM TAMMUZ PARSHAS SHELACH

FRIDAY, JUNE 12, SIVAN 27
7:30 pm Mincha & Shabbat Services
8:05 pm Shabbos Candle Lighting
RSVP for Shabbat Dinner www.chabaduptown.org/shabbatdinner

SHABBOS, JUNE 13, SIVAN 28
8:00 am Shabbos Mevarchim Tehillim
9:30 am Chassidus
10:00 am Services
Shabbos Mevarchim Lunch Kiddush & Farbrengen sponsored by Erica Newman-Corre & her family in celebration of her birthday and in gratitude to the Uptown community 
8:00 pm Mincha
Ethics of our Fathers, Chapter 3
9:04 pm Maariv, Havdalla and Shabbos ends
Living Torah

SUNDAY, JUNE 14, SIVAN 29
8:00 am Shacharis

ROSH CHODESH TAMMUZ, MON. & TUES., JUNE 15 & 16, SIVAN 30 & TAMMUZ 1
6:45 am Shacharis
Followed by Rosh Chodesh Breakfast, Day 1 sponsored by Norman Lazarus and Day 2 sponsored by Uriel Netanelav marking the yartzeit of his mother, Marusia bas Ziilpa, a"h

 


22 Women Who Keep the Mikveh Running

This week’s parsha, Behaalosecha, begins with Aharon HaKohen lighting the Menorah in the Mishkan.

Rashi explains that Aharon was commanded to kindle each flame “until the flame rises on its own.” A true lamplighter does not simply bring light. He helps another flame become steady, strong, and able to shine.

That image has been on my mind as Chanie and I prepare for the Grand Opening of the newly renovated Mikveh Taharas Yisroel this Sunday.

For years, the Houston Mikveh has been one of the quiet foundations of Jewish life in our community. Much of what happens at the mikveh takes place away from the public eye, with sensitivity, warmth, privacy, and care.

This Sunday, we will celebrate two groups of people who helped bring more light to this mitzvah.

First, we will honor the generous donors who made this renovation possible. The Menorah needed a vessel to hold the light. In the same way, this mitzvah deserves a setting that reflects its holiness, with beautiful renovated interiors, greater comfort, and long awaited private parking.

Then, we will honor the 22(!) volunteer mikveh attendants, the lamplighters of this mitzvah.

Night after night, they give of their time, their energy, and their hearts to make sure that women in our community are welcomed, supported, and cared for at one of the most meaningful moments in Jewish family life. They do this quietly, consistently, and with tremendous dedication, sometimes under challenging circumstances.

Their service is not always visible, but its impact is felt throughout our community. They are there in the background, serving as the backbone of the entire operation.

This Sunday’s celebration is about making a big deal about the people who make this mitzvah possible: the donors who created the vessel for the light, and the attendants who help that light shine night after night.

Please join us this Sunday, June 7, at 12:00 pm, at Mikveh Taharas Yisroel, 10900 Fondren Road. Check out the Mikveh here and you can RSVP for the event here.

There will be an outdoor ribbon cutting honoring the donors, followed by an indoor dessert reception honoring the volunteer attendants.

Your presence will help show our appreciation for this important milestone and for the dedicated people whose generosity and quiet work bring so much light to our community.

Good Shabbos!

Rabbi Chaim and Chanie Lazaroff


THE COHEN CORNER
Where a person's thoughts are, that is where the whole person is. 

The Torah downplays the fact that the Jewish people brought the Korban Pesach only once during their forty years in the desert. This is surprising, since they had legitimate reasons not to bring it. Perhaps the disappointment was not in their inability to perform the mitzvah, but in the absence of a longing to do so. At the very least, they should have wanted it.

This teaches an important lesson about spiritual growth. We do not always feel excited about Torah, prayer, or other G-dly pursuits. Sometimes it's hard to study Torah after a long day, to focus during davening, or to choose a meaningful mitzvah over entertainment, comfort, or distraction. The Torah is teaching us that even when we are not yet there, the desire to get there matters. A person may not love learning, but can want to love learning. They may struggle to connect in prayer, but wish they felt more connected. Hashem values not only our achievements, but our aspirations. Sometimes the greatest spiritual accomplishment is simply refusing to give up on wanting more.

Have a fantastic Shabbos!

Rabbi Yosef, Chanale, Mushka & Mendel Cohen


UPCOMING EVENTS & CLASSES:

  • Friday, June 5, 7:30 pm - Summer Garden Shabbat First Fridays - Join YJP Houston with services, candle lighting, and a beautiful summer garden Shabbat dinner. $20 until Thursday with promo code advance, $36 after. RSVP at yjphouston.org/garden.
  • Shabbos, June 6, 9:00 am - Likkutei Torah - Kabbala of the Parsha - Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi's Masterworks on the weekly Parsha.
  • Monday, June 8, 8 pm - Hebrew Language: The Tanya with Rabbi Menny Raichik
  • Tuesday, June 9, 7:00 pm - Men’s Summer BBQ Bash - An evening of smoky flavors and summer fun with BBQ chicken, meats, cold beverages, and great company. $25 suggested donation. www.chabaduptown.org/guys
  • Wednesdays, June 10, 7:30-9:00 pm: CYP Academy: Judaism Decoded - The Truth of Sinai - Did 600,000 people really hear G-d speak at Mt. Sinai over 3000 years ago? www.yjphouston.org/decoded
  • Thursday, June 11, 8 pm: Inner Faith & Jewish Resilience - A study of the Rebbe’s final published maamar, V'Atah Teztzaveh, exploring its powerful message of inner faith, Jewish resilience, and purposeful living as preparation for Gimmel Tammuz
  • Sunday, June 14, 6:30 pm - Shabbat in an Hour for Today’s Busy Women - Cooking demo and tasting with Chanie & Chanale, blending traditional and modern Shabbat recipes. RSVP at chabaduptown.org/cook.
  • Tuesday, June 16, 12:00 pm - Independence Illusion Lunch N’ Learn - Explore whether spiritual growth can be completely self-directed and what true independence means in Jewish life. RSVP at chabaduptown.org/lunch.
  • Shabbos Weekend, August 21-23 - Men’s Shabbos at the Ohel - Whether it’s your first visit or a return trip, this Shabbos is a chance to recharge, reflect, and connect with the Rebbe’s timeless vision during an inspiring weekend of Jewish growth and brotherhood.

SHABBOS PARSHAS BEHAALOSECHA

FRIDAY, JUNE 5, SIVAN 20
7:30 pm Mincha & Shabbat Services
8:02 pm Shabbos Candle Lighting
RSVP for YJP Summer Garden June First Fridays Shabbat Dinner www.yjphouston.org/garden

SHABBOS, JUNE 6, SIVAN 21
9:00 am Chassidus
10:00 am Services
Shabbos Lunch Kiddush sponsored by Menucha Lazaroff in memory of Yona David, a"h, ben Yaffa, tichye
8:00 pm Mincha
Ethics of our Fathers, Chapter 2
9:01 pm Maariv, Havdalla and Shabbos ends
Living Torah

SUNDAY, JUNE 7, SIVAN 22
8:00 am Shacharis

MONDAY & THURSDAY JUNE 8 & 11, SIVAN 23 & 26
6:45 am Shacharis

 

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June Events

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Two Part Class

Inner Faith & Jewish Resilience

2 Thursdays, June 4 & 11 | 8:00 pm

A two part study of the Rebbe’s final published maamar, V’atah Tetzaveh, exploring its powerful message of inner faith, Jewish resilience, and purposeful living as preparation for Gimmel Tammuz.

Summer Garden Shabbat

First Fridays

Summer Garden Shabbat

Friday, June 5 | 7:30 pm

Join YJP Houston with services, candle lighting, and a beautiful summer garden Shabbat dinner.

$20 until Thursday with promo code advance, $36 after.

RSVP www.yjphouston.org/garden
Men’s Summer BBQ Bash

Men’s Night

Men’s Summer BBQ Bash

Tuesday, June 9 | 7:00 pm

An evening of smoky flavors and summer fun with BBQ chicken, meats, cold beverages, and great company.

$25 suggested donation.

RSVP www.chabaduptown.org/guys
Shabbat in an Hour

Women’s Event

Shabbat in an Hour for Today’s Busy Women

Sunday, June 14 | 6:30 pm

Cooking demo and tasting with Chanie & Chanale, blending traditional and modern Shabbat recipes.

RSVP www.chabaduptown.org/cook

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Men’s Shabbos at the Ohel

Shabbos Weekend, August 21 to 23

Whether it’s your first visit or a return trip, this Shabbos is a chance to recharge, reflect, and connect with the Rebbe’s timeless vision during an inspiring weekend of Jewish growth and brotherhood.

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