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to heal ourselves, communities and world

This week took us to Chicago as Rabbi Chaim participated in the regional conference of the community leaders, the Chabad Shluchim and Shluchos of Illinois. Mission: to train them in Mental Health First Aid the provides and empowers with the life saving tools, learning how to recognize and how to respond to the early or advanced signs and symptoms for mental health challenges. May Hashem give them all the right words and strength to make a positive impact on their communities! We have now a total of at least 257 Shluchim and Shluchos Mental Health First Aiders!

We were lucky as well to visit Levi in his summer Yeshivah in Champaign and to participate with the Siyum on Rambam and farbreng for the boys of the yeshivah.

In the Hayom Yom of 28 Av, the Rebbe teaches that there are two approaches to healing: One is to find whatever has been weakened and damaged by illness, then repair and strengthen it. Another is to find whatever remains viable and healthy, and support and strengthen it. Since it is one body, fortifying one aspect brings healing to all the rest.

So too, the healing of the spirit: One path is to grab the weakness by its horns and fix up your act. Another is to focus your energies on the spiritual resources that are working well. Since it is one soul, when one area is enriched, the rest is elevated with it.

This also applies to repairing whatever is amiss in your world: When you see others are not doing their job, important work is being mishandled and valuable opportunities passed up, it is not a time for anger or despair. It is a time for you to strengthen many times over the good work you are doing in your own sphere.

And since we are all one, the energy you invest in your little corner of the world pays off in every other portion as well.

The three week period between the fast of 17 Tammuz and 9 Av, when we mourn the destruction of the two Holy Temples, is a time for heightened sensitivity towards our fellow Jews.

Of course, loving one another is a mitzvah year-round, not just now. But as humans, we know all too well how imperfect we can be in this regard. That's why during this mourning period for the destruction of the Temples, which our Sages teach was caused by a lack of harmony, we emphasize the importance of Jewish unity.

We must always be willing to extend ourselves and show kindness, even when logically perhaps you may have a reason to dislike the recipient. By ignoring and rising above our differences, we are promised the rebuilding of the Temple with the coming of Moshiach!

Rabbi Chaim & Chanie


UPCOMING EVENTS

  • Game Night Shabbat (08.05.22) Game themed Shabbat dinner and interactive games throughout the night. www.yjphouston.org/gamesshabbat
  • Saturday, August 6, 9:00 pm Tisha B'Av Evening of film, study and reflection - Reading of Megillat Eicha - Book of Lamentation followed by a special film.
  • Thursday, August 11 - Tu B'Av The White Party with Illusionist Ilan Smith of South Africa - Join us for the annual party of the year in summer white cocktail attire for an evening of entertainment and fun on this special holiday of Tu B'Av! Check out these 2019 preCovid photos! TICKETS:  www.yjphouston.org/ilansmith
  • Blood Drive (08.14.22) - Donate blood and save a life as we host a blood drive at Chabad of Uptown! Click here to reserve your spot!
  • August 18-21  - YJP Encounter with Panama City!  An adventurous weekend of nature, soulfulness, and connection with fellow young Jewish professionals. LIMITED SPACE. www.yjphouston.org/panama

"When Av begins, we diminish [our] rejoicing" (Talmud, Taanit 26b).

On the 1st of Av, "The Three Weeks" mourning period over the destruction of the Holy Temple--which began 13 days earlier on Tammuz 17--enters an intensified stage. During "The Nine Days" from Av 1st to the Ninth of Av, a heightened degree of mourning is observed, including abstention from meat and wine, music, bathing for pleasure, and other joyous and enjoyable activities. (The particular mourning customs vary from community to community, so consult a competent Halachic authority for details).

Consumption of meat and wine is permitted on Shabbat, or at a Seudat Mitzvah (obligatory festive meal celebrating the fulfillment of a mitzvah) such as a Bris (circumcision), or a "Siyum" celebrating the completion of a course of Torah study (i.e., a complete Talmudic tractate). The Lubavitcher Rebbe initiated the custom of conducting or participating in a Siyum on each of the Nine Days (even if one does not avail oneself of the dispensation to eat meat).

Citing the verse (Isaiah 1:27) "Zion shall be redeemed with mishpat [Torah] and its returnees with Tzedakah," the Rebbe urged that we increase in Torah study (particularly the study of the laws of the Holy Temple) and charity during this period.

Links: When and (How) to be Sadwww.thethreeweeks.com


Shabbos Chazak, Parshas Matos-Maasei
Friday, Rosh Chodesh Menachem Av, July 29, Av 1

Mincha & Kabbalat Shabbat Services 7:30 pm
Candle Lighting 7:59 pm
RSVP for Shabbat Dinner www.chabaduptown.org/shabbatdinner

Shabbos, July 30, Av 2
Chassidus at 9 am
Morning Service 10:00 am
Followed by lunch Buffet Kiddush
Mincha Service 8:00 pm
Ethics of our Fathers Ch. 2
Maariv Havdalla and Shabbos Ends 8:55 pm
Living Torah

Sunday, July 31, Av 3 - Shacharis at 8 am
Mon.-Thus., Aug. 1-5, Av 4-8- Shacharis at 6:45 am

Good Shabbos!

gotta see this video trick!

Parshas Pinchas describes in detail how the Land of Israel was to be apportioned between the twelve tribes. Each family received its allotment within their tribal territory based on a lottery, indicating that it was all in G‑d’s control and everyone ended up exactly where they were meant to be.

This serves as an important reminder of the significance of Divine providence, the fundamental tenet of Judaism that G‑d is actively involved not only in the "big picture" but also the intricate details of our lives and the world around us. Who we meet, what we see, where we settle, are all part of G‑d's master plan, which we have the great fortune of being a part of.

Everything we experience in life should be viewed as an opportunity to make the world a better place, and a dwelling place for G‑d Himself, leading to the ultimate goal, the coming of Moshiach, may it be very soon!

Good Shabbos!

Rabbi Chaim & Chanie


UPCOMING EVENTS

  • Game Night Shabbat (08.05.22) Game themed Shabbat dinner and interactive games throughout the night. www.yjphouston.org/gamesshabbat
  • Saturday, August 6, 9:00 pm Tisha B'Av Evening of film, study and reflection - Reading of Megillat Eicha - Book of Lamentation followed by a special film.
  • Thursday, August 11 - Tu B'Av The White Party with Illusionist Ilan Smith of South Africa - Join us for the annual party of the year in summer white cocktail attire for an evening of entertainment and fun on this special holiday of Tu B'Av! Check out these 2019 preCovid photos! TICKETS:  www.yjphouston.org/ilansmith
  • Blood Drive (08.14.22) - Donate blood and save a life as we host a blood drive at Chabad of Uptown! Click here to reserve your spot!
  • August 18-21  - YJP Encounter with Panama City!  An adventurous weekend of nature, soulfulness, and connection with fellow young Jewish professionals. LIMITED SPACE. www.yjphouston.org/panama

The Chabad family shares condolences to:

  • Eileen Elfezouaty on the passing of her father Joseph D Schultz in Chicago
  • Ian Zlotnik on the passing of his grandmother Marion "Mimie" Zlotnik in Pittsburgh

Shabbos Mevarchim Menachem Av, Parshas Pinchas
Friday, July 22, Tammuz 23

Mincha & Kabbalat Shabbat Services 7:30 pm
Candle Lighting 8:03 pm
RSVP for Shabbat Dinner www.chabaduptown.org/shabbatdinner

Shabbos, July 23, Tammuz 24
Shabbos Mevarchim Tehillim at 8:30 am
Morning Service 10:00 am
Followed by lunch Buffet Kiddush
Mincha Service 8:00 pm
Ethics of our Fathers Ch. 1
Maariv Havdalla and Shabbos Ends 9:00 pm
Living Torah

Sunday, July 24, Tammuz 25 - Shacharis at 8 am
Mon.-Thus., July 25-28, Tammuz 26-29 - Shacharis at 6:45 am

Friday, Rosh Chodesh Menachem Av, July 29 - Shacharis at 6:45 am
Followed by monthly Rosh Chodesh breakfast

Good Shabbos!


An extra tasty dish this Shabbos!

It was wonderful to see many of our Houston friends while in Israel to celebrate Mendel completing his semicha. Like everything in our lives, returning from Jerusalem this week, and it being in the news with the US President's visit, is not by chance! This Shabbos begins the "Three Weeks" mourning period, to mourn the breaching of Jerusalem's walls and the other tragic events that occurred on this day and repent and rectify their causes, Tammuz 17 was instituted as a fast day. This year, however, the actual fast is held on Sunday, due to the holiness of Shabbos.

Since the purpose of fasting is not just the mourning aspect, but also the call for prayer and repentance, this year that is accomplished through celebrating Shabbat is the most joyous way possible. Not only may we not mourn on Shabbat, but we must go out of our way to avoid any semblance of mourning. So this Shabbat must be even more joyous and celebratory than any other week. The Rebbe stated on numerous occasions that on these Shabbats we must increase our joy, and add an extra tasty dish to our meals, to emphasize that we are not in a state of mourning.

And we also pray that since the fast day is already being postponed, may it be permanently suspended with the arrival of Moshiach before the fast even begins!

Rabbi Chaim & Chanie

P.S. Did you get your tickets  yet to the YJP event of the year? The committee is putting together some great fun for The White Party with Illusionist Ilan Smith of South Africa! Get ready for some jaw dropping entertainment and business networking in your summer white cocktail attire! Get your tickets before they go up for Thursday, Aug. 11 at 7:30 pm. www.yjphouston.org/ilansmith


Conduct During the 3 Weeks - During this period, we lessen the extent of our rejoicing. We don't:

  • Conduct weddings. (Engagement parties – without music – are allowed until Rosh Chodesh Av.)
  • Play musical instruments or listen to music.
  • Recite the Shehecheyanu blessing. Thus, we do not wear new clothing or eat fruit which we have not yet eaten this season so that we will not be required to recite Shehecheyanu.
  • Take a haircut or shave. Many Sephardic communities permit haircuts and shaving until the week of Tisha b'Av.

(Speak to your rabbi if there are extenuating circumstances that prevent you from observing any of the above customs.)

Links: TheThreeWeeks.comSome More Laws and Customs of the Three Weeks, About Holy Temple


UPCOMING EVENTS

  • Game Night Shabbat (08.05.22) Game themed Shabbat dinner and interactive games throughout the night.
  • Thursday, August 11 - Tu B'Av The White Party with Illusionist Ilan Smith of South Africa - Join us for the annual party of the year in summer white cocktail attire for an evening of entertainment and fun on this special holiday of Tu B'Av! Check out these 2019 preCovid photos! TICKETS:  www.yjphouston.org/ilansmith
  • Blood Drive (08.14.22) - Donate blood and save a life as we host a blood drive at Chabad of Uptown! Click here to reserve your spot!
  • August 18-21  - YJP Encounter with Panama City!  An adventurous weekend of nature, soulfulness, and connection with fellow young Jewish professionals. LIMITED SPACE. www.yjphouston.org/panama

Mazel tov Omer & Elisheva on their marriage this week in Israel!

Mazel tov Mica and Gabriel Glaun on the birth of a baby boy!


Shabbos Parshas Balak
Friday, July 15, Tammuz 16

Mincha & Kabbalat Shabbat Services 7:30 pm
Candle Lighting 8:06 pm
RSVP for Shabbat Dinner www.chabaduptown.org/shabbatdinner

Shabbos, July 16, Tammuz 17
Chassidus at 9 am
Morning Service 10:00 am
Followed by lunch Buffet Kiddush
Mincha Service 8:05 pm
Ethics of our Fathers Ch. 6
Maariv Havdalla and Shabbos Ends 9:03 pm
Living Torah

Sunday, Fast of Shiva Asar B'Tammuz (Observed), July 17, Tammuz 18
Fast begins at 5:06 am
Shacharis (with Torah reading) at 8:00 am
Mincha (with Torah reading) at 6:45 pm
Maariv and Fast ends at 8:50 pm

Mon.-Fri.., July 18-22, Tammuz 19-23 - Shacharis at 6:45 am

Good Shabbos!

Are you in Israel too?

 Are you in Israel?

It would be our honor if you can join Rabbi Chaim to celebrate Mendel completing his semicha in a small private and short ceremony in the shul where he studied in the Nachlaot neighborhood of Jerusalem. This Sunday, the eve of Yud Beis Tammuz, July 10, at 7 pm in the Beit Kneset Batei Rand. Please message Rabbi Chaim if he should expect you. If you don't have his phone number, you can reply to this email. 

This week we read in Chukas about the passing of Aharon the High Priest, brother of Miriam and Moses. The Torah describes the mourning that ensued as “all encompassing”—every single Jew of that generation mourned.

Aharon was known as a man of peace. In addition to his duties as High Priest, he spent all his time pursuing peace, looking for ways to help people reconcile, going out of his way to bring people together. In fact, the great sage Hillel once said that Aharon is who we should all strive to emulate: "Be a disciple of Aharon; love peace, pursue peace, love G‑d's creations, and bring them closer to Torah."

It is for this reason that when he passed away, the loss was felt throughout the entire Jewish nation.

As a Rabbi, one is constantly looking for ways to be the provider and maintainer of peace. May Mendel's new title of Rabbi grant him the wisdom to provide peace, and may we also all learn from Aharon and be the reason that the land of Israel be place of peace and that the whole world becomes a most peaceful place for all mankind – with the coming of Moshiach!

Shabbat shalom,

Rabbi Chaim & Chanie


UPCOMING EVENTS

  • Game Night Shabbat (08.05.22) Game themed Shabbat dinner and interactive games throughout the night.
  • Thursday, August 11 - Tu B'Av The White Party - Join us for the annual party of the year in summer white cocktail attire for an evening of entertainment and fun on this special holiday of Tu B'Av! Check out these 2019 preCovid photos!
  • Blood Drive (08.14.22) - Donate blood and save a life as we host a blood drive at Chabad of Uptown! Click here to reserve your spot!
  • August 18-21  - YJP Encounter with Panama City!  An adventurous weekend of nature, soulfulness, and connection with fellow young Jewish professionals. LIMITED SPACE. www.yjphouston.org/panama

Shabbos Parshas Chukas
Friday, July 8, Tammuz 9

Mincha & Kabbalat Shabbat Services 7:30 pm
Candle Lighting 8:08 pm
RSVP for Shabbat Dinner www.chabaduptown.org/shabbatdinner

Shabbos, July 9, Tammuz 10
Chassidus with Ziv at 9 am
Morning Service 10:00 am
Followed by lunch Buffet Kiddush
Mincha Service 8:05 pm
Ethics of our Fathers Ch. 5
Maariv Havdalla and Shabbos Ends 9:06 pm
Living Torah

Sunday, July 10, Tammuz 11 - Shacharis at 8:00 am
Mon.-Fri.., July 11-15, Tammuz 12-16 - Shacharis at 6:45 am

Good Shabbos!

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